Nice Guys Finish Last

My buddy asked me to check out the video clips below:

It's uploaded some time ago.


Nice guys really finish last?



"Nice Guys"(with Kevjumba & Nigahiga (Ryan Higa))

Nice guys finish last that's why I'll treat you like trash
It's not what I really wanna do
But you only date bad guys so I'll give you my best try
To treat you the way you want me to
I never open the door or pull out a chair
You can tell me how your day was but I don’t really care
And if you ever get cold, you’ll just have to hack it
Cause I’d be cold too if I gave you my jacket
Like whoa!
You ain’t sitting up front
Front is for the homies, you can sit in the trunk
I never answer my phone whenever you call it
And when the waiter brings the bill
I never reach for my wallet
Nice guys finish last that’s why I’ll treat you like trash
It’s not what I really want to do
But you only date bad guys so I’ll give you my best try
To treat you the way you want me to
And Imma beat you in every competition
Going out with the girls, you better get my permission
Wait no!
I take that back, you can’t go
House is on tonight and that’s my favorite show"
Do I look fat in this dress?"
Hell yeah! You do!
Wait let me speak your language
Cows go mooo, mooo, mooo, mooo, mooo
Nice guys finish last that’s why I’ll treat you like trash
It’s not what I really want to do
Oh.. You only date bad guys so I’ll give you my best try
To treat you the way you want me to
But behind the scenes, she means the world to me
I wanna tell her that she’s beautiful
And show her that she’s loved
Hold her hand when she’s scared
Tell her how much I care
But that won’t win her heart because…Nice guys finish last that’s why I’ll treat you like trash
Not what I really want to do
Oh.. You only date bad guys so I’ll give you my best try
To treat you the way you want me to
Hoe!





I really wish to tell her how much I miss her and to show her how much I care about her...but wrong?!

(Is it because I am a "Nice Guy" so I can't win your heart?)

:(

Day 6 - Waiting for U @Starbucks

The Red Carpet

Wedding Cake

                                                At Putrajaya Seafood in Taman Botani

The Prime Minister's Office, Putrajaya

Red Wine

Dessert

It was so sleepy to wake up at 8.30 am.

I had to print two copies of my IC to be given to the lawyer.

The lawyer told my brother to meet her at the shop next to the shop beside Damasara Jaya Dominos.

She later told my brother that we had to change venue because the shop was closed for special occasion.

She said she would come to Tropicana City Mall.

She said she would be there about 20 minutes later.

We waited for her call.

There was no call from her.

We went down to the mall to walk around while waiting for her call.

At last, we met at Starbucks.

She was having breakfast with her assistant there.

Then, she explained to us about the content of the documents.

It was the 3rd house but it is always the pain in the *ss to sign every page of all the documents.

It was like a few hundred pages so that there would be hundreds of signatures.

We had to become a "star" this morning and we were having our "Signature Session".

The lawyer asked casually whether we have girlfriends while we were signing the documents.

My brother did not respond and I also just smiled back.

She said her parents were worried about her marriage and even arranged a marriage for her but she scolded her parents to stop doing that.

I said it was still common in your culture (Indian).

We finished the procedure in less than one hour.

We shook hands and went home.

I had to attend my university ex-housemate's wedding dinner at Putrajaya Seafood this evening.

I met my best friend and we went to the place together.

He had to fetch his friend at Seri Kembangan first.

She was not the previous lady.

I guessed he changed his girlfriend again.

He is handsome, muscular, tall and rich.

Which girl will not fall for a guy like that?

To some extent, he looks like a jerk to me from what he has been telling me on how he treats his girls.

YEAH! Girls like jerks!

Should I really change to be a jerk since my sincerity and "nice guy" way are not working?

The wedding dinner finished at around 10.30 pm.

I still drove to the shop but when I reached there, it was already 11.00 pm.

I did not feel like going inside.

It looked as if it was going to close soon.

I was sitting in the car thinking of what I should do next.

We did not message each other since last Wednesday night.

Should I message her?

Should I tell her again that I have been still waiting to meet her (one to one) at the shop?

Should I ask her for another date next week?

At around 11.45 pm, I drove home.

I was confused.

I was speeding at 120 - 130 km/h.

I reached home in about 10 minutes.


Zzz...

Love Songs Compilation?

Day 5 - Waiting for U @Starbucks

Hot Green Tea Latte 

It was so cold in the office the whole day.

It was freezing cold.

I was quite busy as it was month end.

I stayed in the office until about 8.15 pm.

I reached there at around 8.45 pm.

There was no parking because there was still a lot of cars.

I had to drive around a few times.

I wondered why I was still going there since I had already met her that night even though it was not in this shop.

Hmmm... Maybe I was waiting for her to come and meet me personally.

That time we can have a good time to talk and share our stories with each other. (Dreaming?)

I will wait for her...

But I will not waste my time by doing nothing.

I will be reading to upgrade myself, be more hardworking to gain more money through my online business, doing something I like and also thinking about my future.

I just received some orders while sitting here.

I will not stop my vocal class and I will still come if I can make it on that day.

I am planning to continue my dancing class.

It is good for me since it is around Sunway area also.

I guessed I would stop the post here since I would be going for a drink at Kota Damansara and then karaoke - ing from 1 am - 3 am... (earliest time for a room to be available) @.@

I should have booked the room earlier >.<

Loudspeaker, Kota Damansara

OverTime (OT) closed. Modern Vintage now, Kota Damansara

Arthur's Day Concert@Beer Factory, Sunway Giza

I still have to go and sign the loan agreement for my new house tomorrow at 9.30 am... O.o


See you tomorrow. . .

This is funny. LOL

When a lady wants to get married, she complains there are no more nice guys...

Where are all the nice guys?

- Die or suicide already...
- Reincarnated into cats...
- Working day and night or hit a lottery jackpot to be rich...
- Turned into jerks...
- At Shaolin temple...

Day 4 - Waiting for U @Starbucks

I slept at 5 am after I completed the previous post but I still had to wake up at 7 am to prepare to go to work.


It was so tiring.

Luckily, I did not have to drive this morning.

My "driver" drove me to office.

There were so many meetings the whole day.

I reached home at about 7.30 pm.

I went to have a haircut and had my dinner.

In one year, two hairstylists, whom I used to visit, resigned.

This time the hairstylist was quite friendly.

He told me that he was working as a hairstylist in Taiwan for the past one year.

We talked about the environment, culture and places in Taiwan.

While I was at the saloon, I overheard the customer beside me saying, "It's difficult to find a girlfriend nowadays. Majority of the girls are materialistic. The girls are only attracted to money and luxurious cars."

The customer added, "Although the girl is willing to be your girlfriend, she may be still looking around. Nowadays, girls are more cunning and disloyal if compare to guys. They will cheat their boyfriends and go out with other guys."

Actually I agreed with him to certain points.

There are so many high technology devices and software that can be used to communicate with people.

You may be having dinner or drink with your partner or friends but at the same time you can chat and flirt with numerous of people through these high technology devices.

As I was tired and sleepy, I thought of not going for tonight but I did not want to give up my promise and stop.

I reached there about 9.45 pm.

It was crowded.

A few people were queuing up to order drink.

Suddenly, I did not feel like having a drink.

I went out.

There was no wind.

I was walking around the shop for some time while holding my mobile.

It looked so obvious that I was waiting for someone...

I took a peek at my mobile phone screen once a while to see if Bubu messaged me today.

There was no message from her since last night.

Hell I know I look like a needy now!!!

My mind just could not stop thinking about her and would like to know what she was doing there.

(How's she today? Is she happy?)

(Was I considered to be lucky last night? Was she giving me a chance last night?)

The things that happened last night were still playing in my mind.

The whole process took so much time to travel from Taipan to SS15...searching for the shop that they were having dinner at... I had to wait for them to go back to take the alcoholic drink... It was like more than 1 hour...

The time we spent together was so short... It was just about 30 minutes or lesser.

I think this might be caused by me as I did not talk much and could not think of topics to talk about.

I saw her best friend would once a while looking at her and smiling.

This would make me to think that whether her best friend was teasing her.

(Does her friend want to express that she is stupid for giving me a chance to meet again while I am still the same and not "performing"?)

I was really stunned that time.

I worried too much.

But I wondered what I could do in that small space (in the car).

The only thing was talking and talking or joking. (that is what I am still not good at)

The environment was not so good even though she took an initiative to change the radio stations for a nice song.

There was once a guy who told me that I should sit at the same direction of the girl who I would like to talk to.

In this way, I could see what she sees also.

He said I could start a conversation by referring to the things in our line of sight.

There was nothing much in the car and it was quite dark outside.

To me, I am not so used to talking so much if there were more than one person around me especially girls.

 That's not good!!!

We were so closed yet so "far"...

This time her best friend did not talk much to her.

It seemed like both of them were waiting for me to start a conversation and keep talking.

Grrrrr... I hate myself !!!

Eventually, we were just having some very very very casual talk while drinking.

My vocal classmate called for a drink.

I told him to go to Asia Cafe.

We were talking and playing with our phones also.

I think this is the trend nowadays.

I was so tired when I reached home at around 2 am.

I thought I wanted to update this post but I fell asleep half way @.@

Day 3 - Waiting for U @Starbucks

Raining dinosaurs and Godzilla this morning. All wet @.@

Starbucks Card

Iced Green Tea Latte

Before I left office at around 6.20 pm, I switched on my broadband.

I was surprised to receive a message in Whatapps from Bubu.

She just said, "Hey".

It was about half an hour ago.

I replied, "Yes. How are you?"

She said, "I'm good. Just want to check out how are you."

I told her that I would be fake if I told her that I was fine.

Then, I found that her reply was weird.

She asked me, "You drink?"

I did not get what did she mean by that.

I called my buddy for help.

I am a novice in relationship thingy. @.@

We talked for about 1 hour... I parked my car at one of the bus stops in Cyberjaya >.<

I told him that I could not treat the girl I really like as any other ordinary girls.

What I did was all came from the bottom of my heart...

At times, I could not control it.

I wanted to give the best for her.

I wanted to make her happy whenever possible.

He told me that I should treat her as any other girls who I was not interested in.

He explained that the girl would feel less pressure and comfortable to be around me or go out with me.

He said I should not be too kind and too nice to her.

She would feel pressure and sometimes she might take it for granted.

He said I should know the "Kite Flying" theory.

Sometimes, I should care about her and sometimes, I should be "cool".

He said that this would give her some space to think as well as give her some freedom to do her own activities.

I asked him, "Don't you think this may cause her to think that I have lost my interest towards her if I don't contact her frequently, do you?"

He said, "That will not happen if I do something that is interesting at the beginning, which will make her to remember me even after a period of time. This may be a funny joke or a cold joke  or a magic trick or an interesting story. When you are telling a story and it reaches the climax, you should pause for a while by doing something else e.g. ordering a drink so that the people who are listening to it will feel the suspense of the story. This is proven to be effective in attracting the people who are listening."

 It seemed that I was still a long way to go with a lot more to be learned before I "graduated" from this "Relationship Course".

He said if a girl who did not contact him for some time and suddenly the girl contacted him back, he would immediately ask the girl for a date.

He said he had been doing that since last time.

I think I row my boat until Pacific Ocean already ~ ~

Back to my story... ^^

I sent her a message to ask her the meaning of "drink".

I asked her, "Do you mean that I consume alcoholic drink?"

Ngak ngak ngak...



No response...

After my conversation with my buddy, I gave it a try by asking her for a date.

I messaged her, "I will be at Starbucks. Would you like to have a drink?"

No reply yet...

I reached Starbucks at around 9 pm.

While I was parking in front of the shop, I hit my bumper against the staircase of a shop.

OMG!!! There were some scratches at both side of the bumper already. O.o

I went to the counter to order my drink.

The staff there seemed to remember me.

She asked me, "Is it Green Tea?"

I asked her whether there is a drink called "Iced Green Tea Latte".

She said, "Yes. What size do you want?"

I said, "Regular. Thanks."

I gave her a 50 MYR note and she helped me to reload the Starbucks Card.

As usual, I sat at the table that was near the entrance.

After a while... I received a reply from Bubu.

She said she was just finished her work and she asked me whether I wanted to join her for dinner instead.

I said, " Yes. But can you tell me the location?"

She sent me the address and a landmark.

I keyed in the address into my lousy Samsung Galaxy S2 (always hanged) and off I went to location.

I reached the area at about half an hour later but I could not find the shop.

She asked me whether I was really in Subang Jaya or I was in PJ. (I guessed she doubted me because I took so long to reach that area.)

I drove around but I was still unable to locate the shop.

She sent me a map with coordinates.

I parked my car there.

I was walking around by following the Google map.

It stated the shop was just 220 - 300 m from me but the arrow was not moving in the map while I was walking around. Crap >.<

I told her I could not find the place and suggested her to have a drink at the nearby Starbucks instead.

She asked me to go to the Starbucks and waited for her there but should not order any drinks.

She said, "We are dying to have a drink. We will go to the park for a drink. Do you keen to join?"

I said, "All right."

She asked me to wait for her at the Starbucks and she would come and find me.

I drove my car to follow her to go to the park.

At first, I thought "park" was a pub or a place to drink liquor.

Then, I thought she meant that a park was really a park.

I saw a big playground on my right.

She messaged me and asked me to park at the side just in front of the security guard post.

They (she and her best friend) would go home and take whatever alcoholic drink that was nice according to her.

I started to think, "What is the meaning before this invitation? Is she giving me a chance? Does she want me to confess to her tonight? Does she have something to tell me?"

"? ? ?" (>.<)"

I waited there until they were back.

They fetched me to the side of the playground.

She stepped onto some mud.

I offered her some tissues but she used the grass to clean it instead.

While we were walking to the playground, it started to rain lightly.

She suggested that we drank in the car instead.

We walked back to the car.

She opened the container that filled with the alcoholic drink.

I offered my help to open it for them but she had already opened it.

She poured some into each of the cups.

She said the bottle of alcoholic drink was brought back from her Japan trip four years ago.

I was s*cks!

I turned into a "stone" again.

I tried to talk and start a conversation with them but it did not end well.

There were silence here and there.

Moments of looking at each other without a word.

Cheers!

She poured the drink from her cup into mine twice.

Soon, I felt my face was a little hot.

I asked her, "How much is the content of alcohol in this drink?"

She said, "It's just 14%"

I told them I felt a little hot on my face already.

She said, "I think you cannot drink one la..."

I told her that I used to drink liquor with more than 50% alcohol content but I was still fine during that time.

Her friend said that even Whiskey is at most 50% alcohol content only.

I told them the liquor is called something like "Cordon Bleu".

Each of us finished the second cup.

She said, "Finish already can go home and sleep. Do you know how to go out from here and go back to PJ?"

She showed me the way...

I drove until SS15 area and stopped in front of Maybank.

I rested a while there.

I saw some police cars passed by.

Then, I received her message.

She said, "Good night. Road block???"

I told her, "It's not good. I am drunk.I don't know where is my home."

She said, "Oops... you so easily get drunk... you take care then. I want to sleep now."

I told her, "No. I am just joking. Night and thanks for the nice drink. ^^"

LOL... Can anyone please tell what is this about / advise me?

"? ? ?" =.="

Confused mind... stress... sad.. stupid move... wrong decision... wrong timing...

I felt like I was being "played" by God and fate. 天意弄人...

I wondered why this happened to me...

Day 2 - Waiting for U @Starbucks

Iced Green Tea

Just second day and I started to question myself. 

Is it worthy to continue waiting for someone who may not even see you as anybody? 

I reached there at 9.15 pm. I ordered a cup of green tea tonight. 

My balance in the Starbucks Card was all used up. 

I had to pay for the drink tonight. I found a seat at a corner. 

Two guys were sitting beside my table. 

They seemed to be talking about relationship. 

One of them seemed to be just broken up with his girlfriend. 

He looked sad. 

Since I was not doing anything, I just listened to their conversation. 

I knew it was not appropriate to do so. 

His friend gave him some advices. 

His friend told him to find something to do so that he could keep himself busy and stopped thinking about his ex-girlfriend. 

He should do something that he used to do and likes to do. 

It really sounded like his friend was talking to me.

Those sentences were still fresh in my mind. 

My friend used to tell me that when I was dumped by my ex-girlfriend. 

Maybe I should keep myself really busy also after this after I really lost hope in waiting and faced the reality. 

His friend said love is not equation. 

He shouldn't find out whose faults or even try to reason on what led towards the break up. 

I really felt that his friend was talking to me. 

I always want to know what and why after something bad happens. 

I think it is necessary to find out the cause. 

If it is my fault, I will avoid that in the future. 

I felt like I did not learn from my previous relationship. 

I had doubts here and there. 

I wondered whether what I had done recently was same as last time and it was wrong also. 

What were the reasons Bubu treat me like that? 

Sometimes, she would reply in a friendly manner but at times she would just ignore or reply in a cold manner. 

Recently, she seemed to be giving fake hopes. 

She would agree on a date and cancel it with a reason. 

I was not sure whether she was really that busy or I was "pushing" too hard.

"? ? ?"

Sometimes, I really could not stand this kind of hot and cold treatments. 

But I did not want to give up on the other hand. 

I continued to let myself to be tortured mentally. 

I felt so hurt, painful and depressed at times. 

It was exhausting but I would not give up easily.

At times, I really did not get it. 

Girls always leave so many '?' for guys to think about.

"? ? ?"

Bubu said she is a straight forward person. 

I thought this time would be different but it seemed to be the same. 

Does all the girl on earth have to same type of brain?

Day 1 - Waiting for U @ Starbucks

Last night was the first night I went back to this Starbucks after I met Bubu four months ago.

It was not so crowded.

I left my office at around 8.00 pm.

I reached there at around  8.30 pm by using NKVE and ELITE.

When I entered the shop, I saw a lady who looked like Bubu from the back.

Suddenly, I felt shocked and surprise.

I walked straight to the counter.

I was standing at the counter for a while and thinking I would like to try the "Iced Green Tea Latte".

I glanced through the big menu on the wall but I could not find it.

The staff there recommended me a new drink.

I said, "All right".

I was still thinking whether the lady was Bubu or not.

I thought, "Do I dare to approach her? How should I start the conversation?"

At that point I asked myself, "Do I really want to see her there? Why am I afraid? Is it because I scare of failure or rejection?"

On the other hand, I was missing her badly and I wished to meet her.

I took a peek at the lady from the counter.

She was not Bubu.

Then, I looked around for a seat that had a wall socket so that I could switch on my laptop.

I found it was relaxing in an environment like this.

It was a good environment for a writer.

My writing skill, language and vocabulary are not as good as a writer yet.

My English is simple and I do not write in a "flowery" way.

Thus, I am not a writer but I am a blogger :)

There was no sign of her...

At around 11.00 pm, the staff started to clean the tables and sweep the floor.

There were still some people in the shop.

I went back at around 11.30 pm.

Ms. M / Bubu encountered. . .

We met in a Speed Dating event.

Everything was started with a SMS...

I sent Bubu a SMS not long after I reached my house.

The text message started off with "Hi Ms. M. Happy 520 (Code for "I Love U" in Chinese) Day! Nice to meet you."

Then, this Android application "Whatapps" came in handy.

I installed it a while ago.

Ms. M replied my SMS by using Whatapps.

She replied in Chinese pinyin "Ni hen wu liao ma (You have nothing better to do)?"

We started to chit chat from there.

I greeted her Morning and messaged her almost daily.

Sometimes, she would greet me Morning and Goodnight or start the conversation first.

Everything seemed to be nice even though she did not reply immediately for some of the messages.

I asked her more questions to get to know her better.

She also showed some interests by asking me some questions in return.

To my surprise, she dated me for a drink on the Tuesday night of the following week that we met.

I was so surprise and excited that night.

As usual I did not bathe so early after I reached home because I had to rest to cool down myself before bathing.

Suddenly, she said she was busy and asked to postpone the date... :(

After that, her friend and I went out for dinner several times with them.

I paid for the bills.

Then, it was getting more and more difficult to date her because she kept saying she was busy with her work as an excuse.